Status Checked

Status checked:

• Single
• In a relationship

Being single?
Often labeled lonely because they are alone. Definitely not with what I can see to my friends. I can see that they are much contented with their lives.Definitely a single status is like a declaration of independence.Just like:

• You can go out with the girls anytime you want,with no one tailing behind you or telling you what time you should be home.
• You can enjoy shopping as much as you want,without a goofy guy being bored to death and convincing you to buy items you do not want just so you’d go home and finish your stuff.

• You can have real peace, no arguments! Definitely!

So what if you are single. When you are happy about it then definitely it's a precious price to pay to achieve contentment. Why rush things up? I guess, it's better to work on yourself first, love and experience being alone than jumping into a commitment with completely offering a dead-end.

In a relationship?
Being in love is a dream that comes alive when we meet someone we really love. It's like we are reading in a semi-dark, empty room. You were actually contented because you were actually reading your most favorite book.Suddenly, someone's knocked at your door and made your heart skip a beat. Turn on the lights and realized why I did not do that before? It was because you were busy reading the pages which actually is the book of your life. You never noticed that life would be much interesting and brighter if someone came along and made you think you are NOT. You became happy being someone but things will not be the same and so you start wishing you never really jump into this ; however good or bad you feel about your relationship, the person you are with at this moment is the "right" person, because he or she is the mirror of who you are inside.

Realizations hits me squarely on my face, it was never important about finding and losing because love is not merely a status. It is just a six-letter word that defines but not totally expressed of what you feel. You may become single but well-loved or taken but broken, you may be single and alone or taken but contented. Love is a matter of being contented and happy not about yourSTATUS.

Single ladies, put your hands up in the air. Ditch more boys like they ditched you. Live life.